How Should We Live?
A Practical Approach to Everyday Morality
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How Should We Live?
A Practical Approach to Everyday Morality
What is your highest ideal? What code do you live by? We all know that these differ from person to person. Artists, scientists, social activists, farmers, executives, and athletes are guided by very different ideals. Nonetheless for hundreds of years philosophers have sought a single, overriding ideal that should guide everyone, always, everywhere, and after centuries of debate we’re no closer to an answer. In How Should We Live?, John Kekes offers a refreshing alternative, one in which we eschew absolute ideals and instead consider our lives as they really are, day by day, subject to countless vicissitudes and unforeseen obstacles.
Kekes argues that ideal theories are abstractions from the realities of everyday life and its problems. The well-known arenas where absolute ideals conflict—dramatic moral controversies about complex problems involved in abortion, euthanasia, plea bargaining, privacy, and other hotly debated topics—should not be the primary concerns of moral thinking. Instead, he focuses on the simpler problems of ordinary lives in ordinary circumstances. In each chapter he presents the conflicts that a real person—a schoolteacher, lawyer, father, or nurse, for example—is likely to face. He then uses their situations to shed light on the mundane issues we all must deal with in everyday life, such as how we use our limited time, energy, or money; how we balance short- and long-term satisfactions; how we deal with conflicting loyalties; how we control our emotions; how we deal with people we dislike; and so on. Along the way he engages some of our most important theorists, including Donald Davidson, Thomas Nagel, Christine Korsgaard, Harry Frankfurt, Charles Taylor, Alasdair MacIntyre, and Bernard Williams, ultimately showing that no ideal—whether autonomy, love, duty, happiness, or truthfulness—trumps any other. No single ideal can always guide how we overcome the many different problems that stand in the way of living as we should. Rather than rejecting such ideals, How Should We Live? offers a way of balancing them by a practical and pluralistic approach—rather than a theory—that helps us cope with our problems and come closer to what our lives should be.
Kekes argues that ideal theories are abstractions from the realities of everyday life and its problems. The well-known arenas where absolute ideals conflict—dramatic moral controversies about complex problems involved in abortion, euthanasia, plea bargaining, privacy, and other hotly debated topics—should not be the primary concerns of moral thinking. Instead, he focuses on the simpler problems of ordinary lives in ordinary circumstances. In each chapter he presents the conflicts that a real person—a schoolteacher, lawyer, father, or nurse, for example—is likely to face. He then uses their situations to shed light on the mundane issues we all must deal with in everyday life, such as how we use our limited time, energy, or money; how we balance short- and long-term satisfactions; how we deal with conflicting loyalties; how we control our emotions; how we deal with people we dislike; and so on. Along the way he engages some of our most important theorists, including Donald Davidson, Thomas Nagel, Christine Korsgaard, Harry Frankfurt, Charles Taylor, Alasdair MacIntyre, and Bernard Williams, ultimately showing that no ideal—whether autonomy, love, duty, happiness, or truthfulness—trumps any other. No single ideal can always guide how we overcome the many different problems that stand in the way of living as we should. Rather than rejecting such ideals, How Should We Live? offers a way of balancing them by a practical and pluralistic approach—rather than a theory—that helps us cope with our problems and come closer to what our lives should be.
Reviews
Table of Contents
Acknowledgments
1 Introduction
The Problem and the Project
Conflicts
Real Lives
Ideal Theories
The Argument
2 Absolutist Morality
The School Teacher
Absolutist Morality
Commitments
Overriding Commitments?
A Dilemma
3 Individual Autonomy
The Lawyer
Autonomy
Misguided Theorizing
The Divided Self
Ambivalence and Understanding
4 Reflective Self-Evaluation
The Dutiful Man
Self-Evaluation
Real Lives and Ideal Theory
Contingency
Justification
5 Unconditional Love
The Father
Love
Problems
Sentimentalism
Love within Reason
6 Strong Evaluation
The Nurse
Strong Evaluation
Doubts
Capacity or Activity?
Fact or Ideal?
Loss
7 Narrative Unity
The Civil Servant
The Narrative Ideal
Criticism
Are Narratives Reliable?
The Ideal and the Real
8 Practical Reason
The Divided Woman
Practical Reason
Complexities
All Things Considered
What Reason Requires and Allows
9 Inescapable Reflection
The Dean
Reflection
Knowledge
Confidence
The Route Back
10 Necessary Truthfulness
The Betrayed Woman
Genealogy
Criticisms
Vindicatory Genealogies
Subversive Genealogies
The Very Idea of Genealogies
Truthfulness and the Practical Approach
11 Conclusion
The Practical Approach
The Error of Omission
Impracticality
Implausibility
Notes
Bibliography
Index
1 Introduction
The Problem and the Project
Conflicts
Real Lives
Ideal Theories
The Argument
2 Absolutist Morality
The School Teacher
Absolutist Morality
Commitments
Overriding Commitments?
A Dilemma
3 Individual Autonomy
The Lawyer
Autonomy
Misguided Theorizing
The Divided Self
Ambivalence and Understanding
4 Reflective Self-Evaluation
The Dutiful Man
Self-Evaluation
Real Lives and Ideal Theory
Contingency
Justification
5 Unconditional Love
The Father
Love
Problems
Sentimentalism
Love within Reason
6 Strong Evaluation
The Nurse
Strong Evaluation
Doubts
Capacity or Activity?
Fact or Ideal?
Loss
7 Narrative Unity
The Civil Servant
The Narrative Ideal
Criticism
Are Narratives Reliable?
The Ideal and the Real
8 Practical Reason
The Divided Woman
Practical Reason
Complexities
All Things Considered
What Reason Requires and Allows
9 Inescapable Reflection
The Dean
Reflection
Knowledge
Confidence
The Route Back
10 Necessary Truthfulness
The Betrayed Woman
Genealogy
Criticisms
Vindicatory Genealogies
Subversive Genealogies
The Very Idea of Genealogies
Truthfulness and the Practical Approach
11 Conclusion
The Practical Approach
The Error of Omission
Impracticality
Implausibility
Notes
Bibliography
Index
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